"Now we have all marked everyones boundaries."

This statement left Talha amazed.

"When it is a family Sarah the boundaries are understood and dont need to be established."


The open discussion amongst us relaxed Jia enough for her to say "That statemen filled me with shame and Fatima's advice made me feel like a slut. I was so heavy."

Oho Jia. This is her habitual pattern. Her fear of the decrease of respect of her husband, his loss of power, her loss of power would gape open her wound of deep inner shame. So she invalidated your pain and shifted her deep inner shame onto you.

"Sarah said since she sets clear boundaries no one oversteps them."

Oho Jia she was bullshitting with you. She has had boundaries overstepped many times. Despite the fact that she has such a strong bodyguard in the shape of her husband. She has never maintained a strong boundary. She has only swept everything under the rug.

Jia let out air.

Her sigh was a release of the heavy burden of shame put on her by someone who was hiding guilt